Relation of Trust, The Friendship!

Friendship is a sweet relation of trust between two or more peoples to share their happiness, sorrows, feeling s of love and to help each other in the best way.

We cannot live without our friends, an individual is alone without friend, only parents are not necessary with which we can pass our life because their is also something extra that we want to do in our life such as gossip, playing, chit chat and some kind of parties and outings to enjoy in our routine life.

Every year 1st Sunday of August is celebrated as a world Friendship day. It was declared in 1935 by US Congress to dedicate the holiday of 1st Sunday by the name of Friends and name it "Friendship Day" to value this relation, at first it was only celebrated in US but then this festival become so popular that now it is celebrated almost in the whole world.

People celebrate this day by meeting their friends, bringing gifts for them, presenting friendship cards, friendship bands and go outstation for some outing etc etc, in short this day bring happiness for those how loves friendship and deserve to be a good friend.

It is believed that, if you want to know that how much a person is social in life, then counts the circle of his friendship, the greater the number of his/her friends then more social-able and enjoyable he/she will be.

Five Indicators of True Friendship
It is said that a true friend is one who criticize you in positive sense, informs you about right and wrong and point out your bad habits. It is necessary in the relation of friendship that you must know about likes and dislikes of your friend and both of you truly understand the feelings of each other.

1--Care about each other
The first sign of true friendship is that how much the friends care each other, care comes when the feeling emerges that how much you value and respect your friend and you feel that your friend needs you. For example, text messages and phone calls on my cell phone increases whenever I had to go for an interview or any of my result is going to be announced soon, that shows how much my friends cares for me.

2--Understand each others feelings
The second indicator of this relation is, to how much you understand each other. By understanding the feelings, likes and dislikes of your friend you can easily make a way towards the heart of your friend, understanding may reflects from the gifts or presents etc, but without these things friendship is just like a time pass. Understanding feeling is just like that if your are jobless then your friend automatically search a good job for you without your saying.

3--Helps at the mean Time when they are needed
Third important indicator for valuation of friendship is the factor of help, as a common saying is, "A friend in need is a friend indeed". A true friend is one who helps in each and every part of life whether it will be financial problem or some kind of family matters.
I still remember when I was completing my graduation degree, one of my friend who was an Account Officer in a firm, he was regular in sending me my mobile credit each month because he was of the view that I am a student and will be having a limited pocket money, that shows the relation of a true friend.

4--Believe each other
Friendship is a relation in which strong believe is necessary, judge your friend if he/she fails on your conditions, judge him/her twice or thrice but don't believe blindly because every friend is not a true friend. So if you want to calculate the percentage of your friendship calculate that how much you believe each others.

5--Never get annoy or argue on small matters
The fifth and last indicator of true friendship is, to how cool and humble are the friends and love between them. If the annoy comes on small matters then it means the friendship is hollow and is not powerful and will break soon. So if you want to build your friendship equal to elephant strength then put the evil of your annoy and arguments in a box and throw it in the river.
For example if your friend refuse to call your attendance during lecture (as nowadays students do in schools or colleges), don't get annoy as he wants you to attend the lecture because it is beneficial for you. If he/she do this then it will be a negative friendship because he/she is supporting you to bunk the lecture.

It is often seen that sometimes friendship converts into love, but it occurs in the case of boy or girlfriend, but if both of the singles are mature and serious about their life, then friendship converts into a spiritual relation of love which moves towards marriage.

Friendship Sms
Nowadays friendship messages are more popular then jokes because it makes the relation more powerful and pure and your friend come to know, that how much you value friendship. That's why I had selected few of the best messages for you.

1--Friends are like toilet rolls, they soak our worries and moments of sadness but if we hurt them they will crash into tiny, tiny pieces, but you are more then a toilet roll he, he, he.

2--Friends means no asking, no reasoning. Friends just means believing, and good friends are those who never believe on last three alphabets of friEND.

3--Friendship is never ending relationship, so if you want to end me, then end the friendship with me.

4--Friends are more like street lights they light our way when sun is down and helps us to make our way toward success. Love to friendship.

5--Friendship is like a rubber band, you can stretch it as much as you want, but don't leave it after stretching, it really hurts!

6--Friends are like carbonated water, once you drink more you desire to chill it again and again.

7--I take three doses regularly, before my breakfast, lunch and dinner. And that doses are to miss my friends and to send them that, "I Miss Them".

I will end my discussion on the sentence that, "God has gifted us friends so that we never feel alone in this world, therefore respect your friends as they add honey sweetness to our life".