Saying that, “I want to marry you” is easy, but to walk on this relation till end is difficult and needs lots of understanding and focus.Ups and downs comes in life, even most perfect couples may quarrels during life on small matters but the main thing is that, how much time you consume to come back to your beloved and say, sorry or forgive by passing smile.
Remember these fall and rise are part of our life, but don’t think them as an actual life. Trust and love become stronger when you come back to the same position from where you had left.
Here are some experienced Tips from the mind of thinkers, how to bring your Spouse back.
1.. Please say something !! (Don’t be angry (silent) for more then two days)
The first step that comes close to your spouse is to say something and come to that point where you had left her/him. Because if you will remain in silence in more then two days it means you had no importance in each other lives, your value will decrease and it may make a matter the serious one whether it will be a small one.
2.. Don’t Argue any more and make a quick Hug !!
When their comes the moment to know which fault it was, then don’t argue more in deep, just quit the discussion pass the smile and make a quick hug, to bring the life normal.
Thinkers say that, by passing arguments make both the sexes hot and mad, so the best way to resolve the matter is to choose a cool place like beach, at a restaurant or by having a coffee, because at that place you cannot make any noise and that place will also effect a lot on the moods.
3.. Say something to Laugh or just do any Naughty Act !!
Do the same naughty act what you had done last time to bring your spouse back, or pass a rumor to laugh and say something funny what your spouse like.
But at this stage you must know what your partner like so that you use the same words to bring her/his back.
Because I think, if you had command over to bring smile on your spouse face then you will be never ever separated in life.
4.. Be Positive and Stay on the Right Track !!
Think positive, if your spouse comes late at night don’t think that he/she will be busy with anyone else, if ever your spouse get angry or quarrel then it doesn’t mean that he/she wants to get rid of you and interested in someone else.
Often old peoples love to talk with young ladies, it doesn’t mean that he/she is fed of you.
One of the most important tips to bring your spouse is to ignore the matters what had been done before.
5.. Use your Emotional Feelings !!
Use your inner feelings for your spouse, as emotional words had the power to even melt the highness of cruelty. Emotional words touch the heart and make way to enter in the blood.
I often heard from my Grand Mother when ever she quarrel with my Grandfather she often use poetry language to express her feelings, so that to face my Grand Pa’s rage and bring them down. Then often my Grand Papa smiles by moving his head saying that, “You are too expert in it”.
6.. Keep Silence at some Moments !!
It is most important that, one person in the couple must be cool, because if both are of the same rage then this journey will hardly continue. So the best way to bring everything back is to ignore at some moments and keep silence because these small mistakes move towards big hurdles.
Once I ask from an old lady about their success of living still too long together, she replies, “ I was 20 when I get married with him and now I am 70 , and the cause of this long journey is, I kept silence whenever it was my fault or the matter was too sensitive and always kept my voice low”.
7.. Move out at some cool Place to Resolve the Matter !!
Location effects a lot on moods, so choose that location where you have a date before marriage, a candle light etc to resolve the matter, because there are some matters that may be private and are resolved without any others interference.
And probably this is one of the main reasons that the restaurants are having thousands of revenues per day.
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